Meeting new people for friendship or dating can be an exhilarating experience and sparks an electrifying sense of intrigue and possibility, leading you to explore uncharted territory. Hence it is crucial to approach these interactions with caution, especially when engaging with someone you don't know personally. Your safety should always be the top priority, whether you're exchanging messages or mustering the courage for a meetup. While you can't control the actions or intentions of others, there are practical steps you can take to safeguard yourself during your meet up adventures.

Protect Your Personal Information

Be aware and careful about what details you share until you really get to know someone. Avoid giving out details like the name of your hotel or any other place of stay in your travel destination, your home address, phone number, workplace details, financial info, banking details, personal pics or other sensitive data that could be misused.

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Protect Your Account

When picking a password, go with something truly unique and complex - make it personal and virtually unpredictable. Treat your login credentials like you treat your private jewels. Speaking of logins, be super cautious about accessing your dating accounts from public computers or shared devices where prying eyes could peek your info. Never share your username or password with anyone over email or phone. A reputable site like HolidayBuddie would never actually ask you to hand over your username and password for any reason whatsoever. If you ever get that kind of phishy request, then consider it as phishing and report it to us right away.

Avoid Money Transfers or Sharing Banking Information

When you connect with someone special online, those warm feelings can make you want to shower them with generosity. But wiring cash, even for a seeming emergency, is a risky move that can leave you financially wounded. Once that money zips out into the digital wild, kiss it goodbye - it's extremely difficult to get it back or even trace where it goes. Sharing things like account numbers or routing info is also an absolute no-no that could leave you painfully vulnerable to scammers. Nobody legit will ever legitimately push you to pay up or part with sensitive financial details on a dating site.

If someone tries to pressure you into opening your wallet or laying out personal banking info, no matter how plausible their tale, that's an immediate red flag. Don't hesitate to report any sketchy money requests right away.

Report All Suspicious & Offensive Behaviour

Meet Ups should be an adventure in finding connections, not a mire of nastiness and fraud. Unfortunately, the world has a few bad apples who don't understand boundaries. If someone's messages or actions leave you feeling creeped out, unsafe, or disrespected, don't hesitate to speak up. Blocking and reporting users who violate the community guidelines is the best way to protect the dating space for all.

What are some instant red flag behaviours to watch out for? Hitting you up for money "loans" or donations, underage users trying to blend in, harassment or threats via text or images, inappropriate conduct if you have met up in person, fake profiles built on deception and sketchy spam or sales pitches. You certainly need not tolerate these types of toxic nonsense.

The report option is right there on every user's profile and messaging window. Report this profile for us to review and know. One click can alert our team to investigate and take appropriate action. Consult the Community Guidelines for more details on what crosses safety lines.

Don't ever feel obligated to endure shady or offensive behaviour in the name of meeting good friends or soulmate. Keeping the meet up pool freshly filtered and healthy for everyone is a team effort. Your reports can help create a better, more respectful environment for finding real connections.

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The Meet up & Dating World Moves Fast, But Your Safety Should Stay First

Getting excited about a new connection is natural, but pumping the brakes a bit can save you from awkward or unsafe situations. Take things at a relaxed pace while you get to know someone through messages from our App. Ask few questions to suss out any personal dealbreakers or concerning red flags. A phone or video call allows you to vet a bit more about the person before meeting up.

When You Do Take It Off-App, Keep It Public

For those first few face-to-face meet ups, stick to bustling public places where you are both comfortable in. Never a private home, hotel room or secluded spot. If your meet up pressures you about getting intimate or asking you to move to another remote place, then you must politely end the meet-up. Your safety comes before anything else.

Minimize Risks by Sharing Your Plan

It is wise to let a friend, relative or anyone who trust in your travel location know of your meet up plan and place. Give them a heads up about who you're meeting, where you will be and what time you will be back home safe. Also keep your phone charged and nearby at all times just in case.

Be the Master of Your Own Transportation

Controlling your own travel arrangement with transportation helps ensure you stay in the driver's seat, figuratively and literally. Have transport ready to drop and pick you at the location. Have a backup like a ride-share app or have a nearby friend to pick you up enables you to make a smooth exit if needed. Let your meet up friend make their own arrangements.

Be informed of the place you are meeting and the surroundings

Google search the location of the meetup and gather information on the place. Make sure it is a public and safe place. If you are a woman, it is always better and safer for you to suggest the meet up at a location that you know well.

Know Your Limits with Alcohol

We usually suggest people to meetup over a cup of coffee/tea, or even over a glass juice, ice cream or even food. But if you are meeting at a bar of a night club, we advise and warn people to be extra careful. When you're excited about a meetup night, it's easy to get carried away and have more than one drink. But remember, we all metabolize alcohol differently. What leaves your friend feeling relaxed might make you feel sloppy and impaired. Pay close attention to how your drinks is affecting your thought process and coordination. If you start feeling unlike your sharp, situationally aware self, it's time to switch to water. Losing your judgment and alertness makes you vulnerable.

The same applies if your meetup friend pushes you to partake in anything stronger than alcohol. Sure, they might say it will help you loosen up and have fun. But being under the influence of mind-altering substances eliminates your ability to stay safety-conscious and make clear decisions. You are surely allowed to say "No thank you, I am good!" as many times as needed. If your date keeps pushing you to drink or use recreational drugs despite your objections, that's an automatic red flag. Don't hesitate to cut the meetup short and get yourself home safe. Looking after your lucid self-interest is far more important than impressing someone who ignores your boundaries.

Be aware of your drinks and never be careless to allow anyone to spike your drinks

As exciting as meeting up with someone new can be, it is crucial to keep your wits about you at all times. When it comes to alcoholic beverages, don't let your guard down. Only accept drinks that you saw properly poured and handed directly to you by the bartender or server themselves. There are few things more violating than having your drink tampered with surreptitiously. The sad reality is that some despicable individuals try spike your drinks by slipping odourless, tasteless sedatives into peoples' cocktails to facilitate sexual assault.

Along those lines of protective vigilance, keep your personal items like your phone, purse, and wallet securely on you or within your line of sight at all times as well. Leaving belongings unattended makes it frighteningly easy for someone to swipe sensitive information or steal valuables.

These few simple preventative measures allow you to relax and actually enjoy getting to know your meetup friend without looming worries.

Compulsory Consent

Every friendly meet up needs to start with an enthusiastic, verbal "yes" from both people involved. Consent cannot be coerced or assumed. Consent is never owed, even if are in a relationship with the person in the past or even at present. It can be revoked at any time, for any reason. Respecting boundaries, no matter how heated things get, ensures you are treating your meetup friend as a person - not just working towards a goal.

Trust Your Instincts and Make a Smooth Exit If You Feel Unsafe

Meetups can be exhilarating, but it's crucial to stay finely tuned to your intuition. If at any point during the meetup you starts tingling with unease, don't ignore those internal warning bells. An uncomfortable gut feeling is a valid reason to politely make your exit, no explanations needed.

Perhaps your meetup friend says something that rubbed you the wrong way or their vibe shifted in an unsettling direction. Maybe you can't quite put your finger on what's off, but that Self-preserving voice in your head is whispering to get out of there. Listen to it. Don't stick around trying to be polite or give them a chance to recover - your personal safety and emotional wellbeing are what matter most.

If the situation ever escalates from uncomfortable to legitimately unsafe, swiftly alert the coffee shop staff. Most servers are trained to respond with care and discretion. But ideally, you read those squirmy signals early and can slip away smoothly before things intensify. Meetups should be fun, not something you endure despite feeling creeped out. Listen to your instincts and do not hesitate to exit the place when needed.

Looking out for your food, drinks, and possessions first allows you to then focus on making a real connection. Your privacy, safety, and peace of mind on this date are too precious to risk.

Listen to your instincts and do not ignore red flags. Take things at a comfortable pace, and don't feel pressured to overshare personal details. When meeting someone for the first time, opt for a public place, and let a trusted friend know your plans. Throughout this exciting process, stay present, attuned to your surroundings, and prioritize your well-being above all else.